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Having Family Time After A Disruption

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Spending time with your family is always going to be important, especially when you’re all reeling from a shared bad experience. It’s essential to come together and physically be there for each other when you really need it. 

But having family time after a disruption can be hard to face. Your children might have some awkward questions to ask. You yourself might find it hard to sit down in front of them and enjoy your time, pretending things are fine when you feel otherwise. 

However, it’s moments like these that bring you together best, and it’s not a bad thing to feel stunted when you’re trying to recover as a family. With that in mind, here are the things you need to remember to make family time after a disruption feel genuine. 

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Choose Different Activities

It’s going to be hard to return to ‘normality’ after you’ve been in touch with spodek law group to talk about something like a separation, and as a result, your future family time needs to fit a different mold. No longer can you all come together to play games or have a karaoke night at home – you might not even be living together right now. 

So what can you do instead? More open and outside activities, such as going to the park together, where there is enough space for all of you. Picnics and kickabouts work well too, so think a little outside the box here, as family time needs to be different but still feel similar. 

Don’t Be Afraid to Talk

As we mentioned above, your children might have some awkward questions to ask you, and you might find it incredibly hard to give an honest but gentle answer. But instead of turning away from questions like these, and telling your kids things are complicated, don’t be afraid to be straight with them here. 

Children value honestly, especially when it comes to being kept in the family loop. Knowing where they stand, after a separation or a loss, will help them to feel much more secure with you. So ahead of family time, make sure you’re ready for questions or bad looks from your kids, and never be afraid to talk openly – it’s what you all need. 

Take Your Time

And finally, always take your time, when adjusting after a disruption. Being able to immediately jump back into it is very unnatural, no matter what you think your kids need from you, and the above two ideas will help you to take the right amount of time here. 

You need to be comfortable with family time, and you need to hear the truth from your children as well – make sure they know they can come to you with any thoughts or problems, and don’t be afraid to scrap it all and go back to the drawing board. 

Remember, family time after a disruption needs to be fun and familiar, but it certainly needs to be different to what came before. 

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